WHAT NARCISSIST PEOPLE DO WHEN YOU GO NO CONTACT
Narcissist people are the ones who are hard to deal with. They are thinking that the world revolves around them. What will happen to you if you had a relationship with this kind of person and when you broke up with them?
Breaking up with narcissist people is likely not a good experience. Of course, they won’t let you go without a fight. We all know that breakup is always hard because it causes too much pain, but when you’ve been in a relationship with someone who is obsessed with themselves, it can be even harder.
Going no contact with narcissist people is extremely difficult because they have mixed emotions that are so hard to understand. Probably, they will feel pissed because they realize they did you wrong and want to make amends. They are so pissed because they don’t have the chance to insult you in order to make you feel that they are powerful. That it’s their job to control you and you are not letting them do that anymore.
They feel pissed because they are not living with you anymore.
Dealing with narcissist people are hard as if you commit a crime.
Here is what you expect if you break up with a narcissist.
1. Always be prepared for begging and pleading. Expect narcissist people to promise to change. They might start doing things that you're complaining about. They will say like, you will never find someone like me.
If you are the one who chooses to leave, good luck to you because it's so hard to leave a narcissist, people. They will give you the fight of your life because they are thinking that they are not done with you yet. They will not let you go easily.
2. Remove friends that you have in common from social media. It might be harsh but sometimes it is the best thing to do. Better to start completely fresh and remove any association of the narcissist from your life. The more connections you still have to each other, the more opportunities the narcissist has to go back into your life.
3. Always remind yourself why your relationship has ended. It is a common thing that when you break up with someone, good memories will flash back, prompting confusing feelings of regret. You might remember the time when your partner was sending you a bunch of messages every day and telling you how much they love you and even care for you. They may send you messages which continually complimenting you.flashback
Compliments are great when they are sincere but for narcissist people, it is their technique wherein the person will bombard you with affection however with motive.
4. Narcissist people will move on quickly and they will tell you about it. Most narcissist people don’t need time to heal from a breakup. They have usually a back up right after a breakup. So commonly they don’t have time to grief because they have someone new already waiting in the wings as a new source of support.
What you will gain if you leave narcissist people?
a. Peace. You don’t have to argue all the time and put yourself in constant drama. Now, you don’t have to feel confused about everything or defensive with every human you encounter. You have peace of mind, heart, and soul.
b. Freedom. This is the best that you achieve if you leave a narcissist person. Freedom for everything. You can already love yourself, be able to do what you want without someone constantly causing you to feel guilty, hurt, or ashamed. You are now free.
c. Healthy relationship. Exactly, your relationship with narcissist person is quit toxic that now you want nothing to do with toxic people that is why you look for a healthy relationship and connect people with a healthy mind and heart.
Once you're done dealing with narcissist people, just go on and leave. Consider that as your experience and help yourself not to be that kind of relationship again.