Things you must do after NO contact
The most exciting part…What will I do after no contact? Will my ex reach me out also? If I will be the one who will reach out will they reject me or will tell me that they really miss me? Those are some questions that need an answer.
After no contact, when your ex invited you to meet you up or something get together, never make it dramatic or emotional. Just be casual and relax. Of course, your ex still needs to feel that things are a little bit different since they broke up with you.
Things that you will do after no contact…
For men, pick up the phone, call, text or email her and get her to meet up with you. But it depends on what you realize during no contact rule of course.
If the result of no contact is okay, do not waste your time and just call your ex on the phone and let the process of getting back started. When you asked her to meet with her, start the conversation with humor and let her fee that you truly miss her like laughing and feeling good to finally be hearing from you again.
Wait for a little bit longer and see if they contact you. This is up to you. If you want to try to win them back then contact them immediately after no contact rule. Don’t feel them that you are not interested in them anymore and maybe you already moved on. You can wait but not too long. If you want to initiate calling them then do it. There is no harm in trying. At least you’ve done your part. Never wait for the message like, I waited for you to contact me but you never did. So I moved on and I decided not to be with you anymore. These hurting words are possible that you may hear if you contacted him for a long time after no contact period.
Send them a joke or things that will make them laugh before you call. In this case, you can sense if your ex still wants you cos they will react to the jokes coming from you. Then after that, its time for you to start by saying hello or hi.
There are a lot of things that you must do after no contact in order to win them back. It's up to you on how you would start it. What is good is that you are already decided on the things that you want to do.