IS YOUR BREAKUP REAL OR FAKE?
Fake or real, the impact is the same you are truly hurt. How do you really know if your break up is real or fake? If it is fake you can still salvage your relationship?
Real break up. The person is really is done. They don’t want to get back together. They never contact you and the people involved are ready to move on looking for another happy relationship.
This is the kind of breakup that partners are not happy anymore for what they have. They decided it even if they are still okay with their ex. They are just waiting for the right time so that both of them will burst. It’s too painful but everything that happened should be accepted.
Fake break up. It is one thing done under the guise of something else, and that’s never a good idea. During this kind of break up, the people involved are still connecting. They are calling with each other texting and continue to communicate.
One or both of you will get hurt however, you are riding the roller coaster of emotions. Still, it really hurts.
The people involve don’t want to break up with you but they have no choice. They are confused, insecure, unloved, and not appreciated and they are trying to get your attention.
They are thinking that this is the only way on how they could get your attention really fast.
Ways to know if a break up is permanent or will end up just being a break.
When both of you realize that the situation is not healthy and it has been making you deeply unhappy. They are a lot experiencing this kind of situation. When you are not strong enough to combat it, you will end to break up.
In this case, you have to be watchful on how your ex communicates with you. If it looks like they’ve come to terms with the end of the relationship and they accepted it, it would be probably the end of your relationship.
If they are already silent and they are no longer fighting for you, it means that he accepts the fact that it's already the end of your relationship.
So if your ex is communicating with you like they are no longer trying to put you down or prove something to you, and you can see that he is okay or satisfied with what is happening, this is also a sign of final break up.
Usually, after this breakup, one of them will explain that they are just angry at that time and asking for reconciliation without sacrificing their relationship.
Both of you are not interested in seeing someone else. Ending a relationship especially if it is a long term hurts you a lot.
In some cases, if both of you don’t want to date someone new, you are still giving a chance to be together again but if you are both happy dating with someone else, meaning you are already giving up your relationship.
You broke up in the middle of the argument. “ I hate you and never want to see you again. We are done!. Those are too painful words that we really break our hurt.
You will be still asking how temporary or permanent breakups work. Whatever it is, it's still break up and really will really hurt you.