If you love someone let them go, is this correct?
Why is it that you are going to let go of someone you love? Isn't it that you have to work hard in order to have him or her. Show to him or her that you are deserving.
You are going to let go of someone you love because you want the best for that person. Are you not the best for him or her? Did you ever try to be the best for him or her? It is not about looking for the best for that person. Letting go of someone you love means breaking your own heart.
Why should I let go of someone I loved? If you love someone, obviously it is not easy to let them go especially if you have a long term relationship.
There are a lot of interpretations about this quote but it's up to you on how you could handle it. Sometimes you don’t want to let go but you need to because of the following reason:
Your needs are not met or you are not satisfied with your relationship. Every person has different wants and needs wherein you are asking it to your partner and once not met you are easily giving up. This is not good because once you love your partner you need to help together in order to achieve your goals in life.
When one partner is not fulfilling or not helping in order to achieve your goals, you need to communicate. Never decide easily wherein your decision will affect your relationship that may end to end it.
If you want to seek your needs to others. This may result to dumping in to other relationships. The result of this is break up. Your reason will be I need to search for myself and you need someone better than me.
If you or your partner is seeking emotional of physical fulfillment from people outside of your relationship, you need to end it.
Your friend and family never support your relationship. It always happened and for me if it happened, I will work hard in order to fight and protect our relationship. They should not be the reason why I need to end this. I will never let them ruin our relationship. They might be the reason for our break up but I will try my best for them not to destroy it if I am still happy with the relationship that I have right now. If my partner is capable enough to fight for.
However if the people who care and love you are seeing that the person you are in love with isn’t making you happy, it's better to listen to their opinions.
You’ve been working on your relationship for more than a year. If you see that you are the only one who exerts effort so that your relationship will work and you didn’t meet each other’s needs, might as well your separate ways. Because you already did your best and it wasn’t good enough.
Your partner is too abusive. If your partner is abusing you, you might as well leave them and love yourself instead.
If you love something, let it go
If it returns, it’s yours
If it doesn’t, it wasn’t…
Think about it.