BREAKING NO CONTACT RULE
What will happen if you break your no contact rule? Will it be effective for the second time? Of course, there are consequences that are not good even for both partners. You will be happy because you contacted your ex during that period however, do you think it will help? Or you are just making it worst.
No contact rule is one of the most effective ways in order to get our ex back. So breaking it would absolutely set you back to the day of the breakup, forcing you to relive the day you got broken up with.
Breaking a no contact rule is too dangerous because you are setting yourself for possible rejection. You didn’t even know if you will be rejected if you reach out to your ex. The pain that you both have is still fresh, so obviously, you cannot think positively.
What will happen if you break the No Contact Rule?
1. For women, there is a high possibility that she will not reply. The pain is still fresh from their heart and memory. So the tendency if you contacted them, women might not reply or just ignore your messages.
That moment, she might be thinking of moving on and don’t want to hear anything from you. She decided to live life without you and hoping for someone new. She wants also to test his confidence and see if she has got the balls to try again contacting her.
If you are trying to get back and you told her through text, that is a big NO. Women might be turn off.
2. She replies to some of your texts and replies to some of your calls but not all. If you are planning to break the no contact rule, don’t consume your time sending unnecessary messages or making calls as a friend.
Though you can wait to finish the no contact rule, you must not waste your time, text her as if you are just a common friend and if the reply is positive, try to set for a date but never force her if she doesn’t want to. Continue trying to give her enough time to think.
3. Another one is that she wants to reply however, she is afraid that the result is not good. Women always and still have feelings for her ex even he dumped her. While on No contact rule, trying to move on, she might constantly miss you. That is why when you contacted her, she might too excited to reply however she is thinking the other way. What if she is just playing with me? What if she is not serious about what he is saying to me.
Always remember, that if your ex never replied to you during NO contact rule, never assume that she is not interested. Just be patient enough.
So, deep inside you really want to try getting back together with your ex. You probably want to overcome the anxiety that you have right now by talking with your ex hoping that what you feel right now is the same feeling that they have.
But just remember that your ex broke up with you because they don’t want to be with you anymore and contacting with them brings up a not good result. In doing so, you intend to restore the levels of intimacy back to where they were prior to the breakup.
When you reach out to your ex prematurely, you will do so with unreasonably high expectations. If you contact your ex and break the no contact rule, you are doing this for the wrong reason. This could not even help. Rejection may be the result of this and you will be hurt again big time.
So let the time heal and respect the no contact rule.
You broke up with your ex for some valuable reason and you both decided to parted ways. Just be strong and respect every decision so that both of you would be happy for the result that this may bring.