Most of the relations break when either one of the partners start thinking about a want of space. You could be intruding into his comfort zone a bit too much. This could happen because you love very much and have become possessive about him of late.
Compromising and making room for the other person’s interest and tastes is the first and foremost thing to remember. You cannot expect to live as you lived in your single days as there is a second person from a different background to share your home. Things could go awry and difference of opinions could crop up any time. However, make sure that these do not boil down to an ugly break up.
On your move to reinstate your loved relation, all you need to do is to steer clear of some of the common mistakes while handling this issue. Any breakup is an emotional and painful experience. All you want to do probably would be to watch melodrama on TV or curl up in your bed reminiscing of the good old days and feeling sorry for yourself for everything that has happened to you. But, all these wont help you to win back your ex boyfriend as it would require a solid plan without which you could end up in making all the wrong moves thereby blowing up your chances of making a comeback.
Though many of your problems get solved with your gut feeling and blind faith in oneself, this might not be quite right in break up situations. So for a change, while handling break ups, you need to do just the opposite of what your heart might tell you! Though it might sound strange to you, this could make case once you are in the process.
Success does not mean committing no mistakes; on the other hand it is about not repeating the same mistake twice. There are many steps involved in bringing back your ex boyfriend. Here are a few tips which bring you closer to your ex by using the magic of making up.
- Find out What Went Wrong and Where: Find out the actual reasons for the break up. Was it because one of you or both were possessive, domineering or abusive? If the answer is yes, it is better not to resume that kind of a relation. On the other hand, if you still treasure him as someone special in your life and want him back because you cannot live without him, it is well worth trying.
- Try to be the Person He Fell in Love With: Try to set right bad habits and mistakes, if any, and fulfill his emotional needs fully. A happy and smiling partner can do magic in enhancing the morale of your partner. Be optimistic and supportive so as to make your home warm and welcoming.