Most of the relations break when either one of the partners start thinking about a want of space. You could be intruding into his comfort zone a bit too much. This could happen because you love very much and have become possessive about him of late.
Compromising and making room for the other person’s interest and tastes is the first and foremost thing to remember. You cannot expect to live as you lived in your single days as there is a second person from a different background to share your home. Things could go awry and difference of opinions could crop up any time. However, make sure that these do not boil down to an ugly break up.
In spite of everything, if your relationship breaks, you can still work your way to make it fine. Try out these simple and smart tactics that will win your boy friend back. Do not appear miserable and emotionally wrecked in the event of a break up, though in reality it could well be the case. Try to put on a brave face, appear confident and well groomed and let the life go by in its normal mode. You can even plan small kitty parties or week end outings or a day out shopping to send across eh message loud and clear to your ex that you are still leading a normal life! This could turn the odds in your favor when he suddenly starts thinking that he could well be the reason for this mess.
Do not act solely on your instincts as it wont take you anywhere in a broken relationship. It is not the guts but a level head that would give you leverage. Say no to tears and bring in the tactics to clean up the mess.
The second tip is to close the channels of communication with your boyfriend for a short while. Leave him guessing on what’s happening in your life. His brain in all probability will work overtime in hatching stories of a possible link up of yours and will start getting nightmares about the new man in your life (guffaws); though it could be a very hard task to resist the temptation of making that call or leaving a basket of red roses at his doorstep with an apology note, it would work wonders and hence is worth taking the pain!
However, make sure that none of your deeds appear rude or suggestive of lost interest and passion. After a few days, you can make a brief call to enquire his well being. But care should be taken not to discuss anything about the break up and its effects on your life. You should sound normal and happy and may be after a few days, you can extend an invitation for a party or a day out in the company of your mutual friends.
You can enjoy the games that you always liked and this would bring back the sweet memories of the past. This would put the ball in his court. Meanwhile you can enhance your personality and social life by mingling with friends, gaining knowledge on relationships and experiencing new and interesting facets in life. This will notch up your self confidence and this change will be noticeable to everyone including your boyfriend who will readily notice that you have moved on with your life instead of brooding over it 24 x 7! This fact alone would charge the guy fully on just like a read rag wakes up a bull from its slumber!