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Get My Ex Back – The Do’s and Don’ts

Couples breakup due to various reasons; from simple reasons like not getting his habitual bed coffee in time to not getting to see his favorite sports channel as his wife was engrossed in her favorite sitcom- the reasons could be small and simple or weird and crazy most of the times. Interestingly couples separate on serious and valid reasons only in a very small percentage!

While trying to repair a broken relationship, Rule 1 is not to rush to her with a deluge of phone calls, apology cards or red roses. Keep your silence for a while so that your ex will start wondering what could have happened at your end. As she ponders on an array of questions like have you met someone else or do you no longer love her’, you can make your first move by making a brief call or sending a hello mail, which would reignite the passions in her mind.

Do not rush through; when you think that the timing is perfect and the conditions are conducive, you can plan a dinner or an outing with your common friends. It would put balm on the bruised wounds of both and it will set a perfect back ground to men ways and to lessen the distance. Serious discussions and conversations can be reserved for another occasion and let this meeting be only an occasion to show off your changed personality and attitude, which will make her more confident in getting back to you.

Another effective tactic is to make your ex feel as if she was the one who was dumped. That will give you a psychological advantage for you in your future strategies. To do that you need to think and do just the opposite of what you are right now. To put it differently, even though you could be in emotional turmoil of having lost your ex, you could behave as if you are accepting the fate of the relationship by endorsing your ex’s decision for  a break up.

In many cases people play the ‘break up’ card as a pressure tactic to drive home the message that he or she is not happy with their partners and the other person has to do some serious make over if the relation has to succeed.

In the event of a break up, give your ex some time and space without intruding with your sentimental letters and apologies. No break up is ever final so do not spoil the chances of a possible make up by pestering them with messaging and emailing. Let your ex think with a level head and let time heal the wounds before you think of taking up the issue of a possible compromise. Do not make your push; let it happen naturally at its own pace.

Though it is something very difficult to practice considering the emotional overtones involved, you have to reign over your mind to emerge victorious at the end of it all. Resist the temptation of picking up the phone to make that call on the very first day. Once a few days pass by, your ex will start wondering why you are remaining silent without wanting to speak to him/ her. Let them ponder on the reasons behind this sudden change, and they may even wonder that you are hooked up with someone else and you might not be interested for a scramble back!

As I said, no break up is final, so try a patch up with complete caution and do not commit blunders!